To all girls out there,

Okay, so here`s the thing. I`ve been reading so much drama-related posts here and hearing stories from people who have haters and blah. (I`m a victim too) So, here`s to all girls out there.

To those people who hate on you, betray you let you down, backstabb you, spread shit about you, here`s the thing, FUCK THEM.

When I was in highschool, many people hated me. Freshman year, upperclass men bullied me because I annoyed them. And why? Because I didn`t act like them. I didn`t want to fit in with people in school so they made my life Hell. They ostracized me. Every week, I would cry because they would make fun of me. But then, I got tired so I stopped caring and I stopped crying. And they stopped bullying me. They judged me and didn`t even try to get to know me. Their loss man, their fucking loss.

Senior year, I thought these hate issues were over but heck, one of my friends told me that 7/10 of people she knew talked shit behind my back. And those people (some), I knew, were those who would comment on my Multiply and say nice things about me, say that I`m pretty, creative, talented, blah, then yeah. (Hah, I`m not stupid) I was so sad that time and I felt so unloved. (Thank God I had a bf back then so, not really haha) but I just laugh about it now. One thing I remember he told me tho, was that I shouldn`t mind these people, because they were just jealous of me. (Look, even a guy knows!) But I refused to believe that 100% because I didn`t want to seem big-headed. But heck, even if I wrecked my brains out, I couldn`t think of a good reason why they hated me.

So yeah, all I have to say to all you girls is this, there will be a point in your life
where you`d be satisfied with who and what you are. You will realize that you can`t please everyone. They talk shit about you? So what. You know that you`re not doing anything bad so let them be. It is true that these people are only powerful once your back is turned.

Realize that you are better then them and these people lack something, whatever that may be: happiness, contentment, friends, talent, confidence, etc. They lack something and you do have it that`s why they`re putting you down. That simple. And don`t apologize for being yourself. It`s just like apologizing for breathing or for crying after you get your heartbroken, man.

I swear, if people just spread goodness and just complimented others for seeing something good in others, instead of putting them down, the world would just be a better place. Hope I helped girls with these kind of ‘issues’. Cheer up, you`re amazing and beautiful. <3

From a fella` girl,
K