BEING REPLACED DOESN`T NECESSARILY MEAN BEING ERASED.

You know that moment when you like someone or maybe even worse, you love them? Then you suddenly find out that he has someone else?

It feels like shit, doesn`t it? Deep fcuking shit.

Yes, it does.

Well, for those girls out there who think that they`re being replaced and it hurts like motherfcuking hell, think of it this way.

You may be replaced but you are not erased. This is the nicest, most appropriate metaphor I can give you:

Think ‘Toy Story’. You had a favorite doll when you were young. You played with it all the time, you could never sleep without it, you loved it so much that you treated it as your baby. Then, you grow up and you no longer play with that doll and you leave it in your closet, eating cobwebs. (Even maybe comes alive at night then looks at you when you sleep and cries because she misses you, maybe.) Then, after a few years you remember your favorite doll. And you miss it, don`t you? And you realize how much happy memories you shared together. And you go open your closet and hug it. It was never erased, wasn`t it? And you remember that it was a big part of your life, a big part of you growing up.

Well, do you get it now?

You`re never really erased. You may be temporarily or permanently replaced but you will always be part of that person`s life, of that person`s heart.

And now it may hurt like shit but just think of this and smile.

And you will feel better, I promise.