My definiton of a BITCH.

A woman is called bitch because she is strong, intelligent and doesn’t take shit from anyone. She’s called a bitch because she’s ambitious, outspoken and doesn’t let anything stop her from accomplishing her dreams. She’s a bitch, as defined by society, because she challenges what’s natural…. does what makes her feel happy, and doesn’t accept society’s norms and rules - especially when said norms and rules are designed to keep her down.

Shes strong, and speaks out when a situation makes her uncomfortable. But she doesn’t do it as a way to complain, but rather, to say, “Continue what you’re doing and I’ll kick your fucking ass!” She fights for her fellow women, but not because they’re women. She fights for them because she sees them as human beings, just as she sees herself. She doesn’t need a man or woman in her life, as she is a complete person. While a partner - of either sex, would enhance her life, it doesn’t define her life. Her happiness comes from her accomplishments and what she can do for the world and herself, not by virtue of her “womanhood.”

She’s happy with who she is, and doesn’t have to dress up or put on make-up to make anyone happy; if she so chooses to do that, it’s to make herself happy. She owns her body, and is willing to use it for her own pleasure and the pleasure of those she deems deserving, but dare pressure her into anything and she’ll kick your ass. She is a woman, but she’s a human being first. She is defined by the fact that she walks and breaths, and not because she has a vagina.

Society is afraid of bitches because they’re not natural. They challenge the patriarchy, they make people uncomfortable in their own shoes. So, instead of worshipping bitches, they write them off, and they look at bitches as undesirable and lesbians and whatever you can think of.

Realities Of Being In A Relationship.

Don't give everything away. Leave some things in a mystery. Guys love conquest. If you already give your all wala ng something to look forward to sa relationship nio. And the guy will become KAMPANTE. Assure him of your faithfulness and love, but warn too:

"umayos ka jan! You can lose me anytime. . ."

The guy who love's his mom will be a good boyfriend. Why? Because if he has a high respect for his mother, he will have respect for women.

MALAKING PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most important thing for a girl is his heart. For a guy it's ego.

Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his friends, sports, family, self ang GOD. The relationship will grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with you all the time, tell him you can't respect a "puppy" for long.

Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo, there is always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice. Exciting baga?

"Making love" is better than just "having sex". And true love "waits". Save your precious "gift" on you wedding night. Di nagiging tama ang mali. just because uso naman and everyone's doint it. Be different.

Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilg nyo, compliment each other by learning about it kahit konti.If you love somone, yung effort nyo to try will will go a long way to understanding him later 'pag may disagreement kayo.

Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but it's very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he doesin secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective.

Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami na. . ." Only God can change a person, and only if that person wants to. Even God cannot steer parked cars. Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical or logical na dahilan, o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The coniest song ang letter ang laging kabog! (di ba?) True love brings best in each other. Find something good in your boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it, and syempre ENJOY it. It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lng maayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. doon mo rin sya makikilalang mabuti. It's called "test of fire". Di mahalaga ang dalas ng inyong pagaaway. What matters is how often you make bati.

Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na. . . "uy bati na tayo. . ." But don't overdo it. Kakapagod din naman ung laging manuyo at magsori. Choose the battlesna papatulan mo. The little issues, palipasinan na. Don' sweat the small stuff.

Daraan sa iba't-ibang satages ang love especially 'pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expect him to be like una. 'Coz like a student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang grade 2. Change WILL happen. . . you both WILL change and your love WILL change too. It's up to you na lng if the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.

Got this from a friend.

Confession

I miss having someone to text and talk to throughout the day. Sadness, I'm blaming it on my weird dream. Okay I’m over it now.

You are entitled to nothing but the simple fact that you need to earn everything.

Isn’t that some shit though? You may think you’re entitled to the truth from somebody. You’re not. In order to gain anything from a person, you have to earn it. You have to build a relationship with someone and create that respect with one another to earn anything from them. Their friendship, trust, loyalty, love, it all has to be earned.

Fact of the matter is that no one owes you a thing. A complete stranger owes you nothing and even your best friend owes you nothing. It’s the truth. It’s also sad if you think about it because often times even when you’ve earned everything, they still give you nothing in return. Even when you’ve been there for them through thick and thin, you’ve supported them, and even given them everything of your being, they sometimes still do not acknowledge what you deserve.

That is the sad truth; sometimes earning it just isn’t enough. That’s when you just need to walk away. Honestly, you can only give so much of yourself until you realize that you don’t need to be unappreciated any longer.

What if?

What if you had just said “hello”?
What if you had never said “hello”?

What if you had just sat next to her?
What if you had never sat next to her?

What if you had just said how you felt?
What if you had never said how you felt?

What if you had just smiled at her?
What if you had never smiled at her?

What if you had just pressed “accept”?
What if you had never pressed “accept”?

What if you had just said you’re sorry?
What if you had never said you were sorry?

What if you had just said “I love you”?
What if you had never said “I love you”?

What if you had just complimented him?
What if you had never complimented him?

What if you had just gone with him when he asked you to?
What if you had never gone with him when he asked you to?

What if you had just apologized?
What if you had never apologized?

What if you had just told her how thankful you were that she was in your life?
What if you had never told her how thankful you were that she was in your life?

It just makes you wonder how different life could’ve been either way, right? It’s such a trip how different your life could be if you had just made one single choice, you know? I, for one, would rather choose to live a life of “What if I had never…” because that just means I took the risk instead of being scared of it. Sometimes, it’s something I’ve got to work on.

So, you can either worry about the “What if I had just…” moments for the rest of your life or you could wonder about “What if I had never…” moments. Which life would you rather wonder about? The one that can never happen or the one that would’ve happened if you never made that one single choice that changed it all?

Beauty is in the eye of the superficial.

Oh, so you’ve completely overlooked someone you think is attractive? You’ve simply passed by anyone who is “hot/handsome/beautiful/fine” without so much as a second look. You’ve never found interest in another person because you thought they were the least bit appealing to the eye. You’ve never admired someone because of their beauty. You’ve never once worried about what others thought of you or how you looked. You’ve never spent the extra five minutes just to make sure that your hair was looking right. You’ve never once looked in a mirror to see that you looked decent before leaving the house.

Really? Well, damn, you must be a god. You must be someone that is simply above the rest of us simple human beings who give into these superficial tendencies time and again. You’re just that amazing, right? Well, I’m fully aware that looks do matter. Look in a magazine, watch television, or look outside your window and try to tell me otherwise. Tell me that supermodel on the billboard with nothing but her underwear is a figment of my imagination. Tell me that the men working out in the gym for hours at a time aren’t really there. Tell me that the girl throwing up in the bathroom is just a fluke.

So again, you want to tell me that looks don’t matter? If you do, I’ll just tell you that you’re full of it. Try and convince me that you’ve never once given two shits about what you looked like or what another looked like and I’ll tell you to save it. Stop trying to fool me and especially yourself when you say looks don’t matter. Sorry, “Mama didn’t raise no fool.”

We are all guilty of being superficial. I openly admit to it and I see no problem with it. I’ve accepted the fact that looks matter in this world. The rest of you who want to deny it just need to look around and finally face the facts too. We are all human; it’s time to get used to it.

Hello, and your name is?

Isn’t it amazing how you can develop such strong bonds with people in an instant? You can get so close to someone that you eventually become aware of their ins and outs. Isn’t it amazing how you can be the best of friends and it’s as though nothing can tear you two apart. It’s simply funny isn’t it, that the world has the capabilities of working that way?

It’s even funnier when that same person can suddenly become a complete stranger to you. There ins and outs become so unfamiliar. Magically, it’s like you’ve never known them, better yet, that you’ve ever met them in your life. That bond you once had is nothing but broken now. That friendship you thought was unbreakable shattered before you could even blink.

If you ask me, that’s pretty funny. As a matter of fact, I think it may just be the most bittersweet comedy I’ve ever seen.