Realities Of Being In A Relationship.

Don't give everything away. Leave some things in a mystery. Guys love conquest. If you already give your all wala ng something to look forward to sa relationship nio. And the guy will become KAMPANTE. Assure him of your faithfulness and love, but warn too:

"umayos ka jan! You can lose me anytime. . ."

The guy who love's his mom will be a good boyfriend. Why? Because if he has a high respect for his mother, he will have respect for women.

MALAKING PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs most is respect. The most important thing for a girl is his heart. For a guy it's ego.

Give your man his own time and space. Let him have his time for his friends, sports, family, self ang GOD. The relationship will grow old quickly if lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time to miss you and you'll see how he will love you more. If the guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with you all the time, tell him you can't respect a "puppy" for long.

Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal na kayo, there is always something fresh and new. Variety is the spice. Exciting baga?

"Making love" is better than just "having sex". And true love "waits". Save your precious "gift" on you wedding night. Di nagiging tama ang mali. just because uso naman and everyone's doint it. Be different.

Discover something you both like to do and enjoy it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilg nyo, compliment each other by learning about it kahit konti.If you love somone, yung effort nyo to try will will go a long way to understanding him later 'pag may disagreement kayo.

Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh? Maybe, but it's very powerful. Pag may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything he doesin secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that before you part after date, with hold hands and eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe me it's effective.

Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami na. . ." Only God can change a person, and only if that person wants to. Even God cannot steer parked cars. Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan practical or logical na dahilan, o walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do sweet little things for the one you love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories will be fun to recall later in life. The coniest song ang letter ang laging kabog! (di ba?) True love brings best in each other. Find something good in your boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it, and syempre ENJOY it. It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lng maayos ang mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng relationship. doon mo rin sya makikilalang mabuti. It's called "test of fire". Di mahalaga ang dalas ng inyong pagaaway. What matters is how often you make bati.

Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And diba mas kilig yung malambing na. . . "uy bati na tayo. . ." But don't overdo it. Kakapagod din naman ung laging manuyo at magsori. Choose the battlesna papatulan mo. The little issues, palipasinan na. Don' sweat the small stuff.

Daraan sa iba't-ibang satages ang love especially 'pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expect him to be like una. 'Coz like a student, di na ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang grade 2. Change WILL happen. . . you both WILL change and your love WILL change too. It's up to you na lng if the change will be for the better or for the worse. Life is about growth. Grow with it.

Got this from a friend.