Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Sometimes its better to love a heartbroken also, so that he already feels how painful everything was..


One of the reason why people get so sentimental.... It's because, memories are the only things that don't change when everything else's does. There are things in life that you can't hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes destiny isn't always good, it becomes playful. When we met someone we learned to love, we thought tha it was destiny who made our paths cross. But what if making your paths cross is just part of the game that the playful destiny creates? Making us realized in the end that the person we thought that was destined for you wasn't really meant to stay.... but only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you've already fallen in love. It's not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love. Some might think it's just an excuse.. Some might not actually believe.. Some will blame you.. Some might even be mad at you.... What they don't see is the fact that it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt especially when you can't actually state the reason why you have to leave.

You can never own something that was never yours, so let's stop gripping on things we expect to last forever. Nothing last forever. Forever is a lie. Everything is transitory. So while you have something in your hand,
put it in mind that it's just borrowed. So that someday when it's gone, it won't take you eternity just to let it go. When your feelings get strong for someone, it's always wise to stop for a while and give your heart... - a time to breathe, a time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship.

Love can sometimes be magic... but magic can sometimes be an illusion
. There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions so that i'll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or dissappointed, and never get my fragile heart be broken.
But the same thing means that i'll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return the thought of it kind of scares me. To have a heart that's whole and numb or a heart that's broken but real. Someday, we'll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight. Maybe when that time comes we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren't really meant for us. But I guess learning takes time and mistakes make one's journey fun.

Life is what we make it.
Love makes the world go round. So let's live, love and take whatever pain it brings though it's hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen. It's harder to stop when I know it's everything I've always wanted. But you know what i'm glad? I'm glad it happened. We're good friends and i'm thankful for that.

"Take care always my dear friend. I'm always here!"

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